Will we know when we are beginning to reach the end of pretend? Time to scrap the scrap books full of the faded memories of long-ago enactments of loveliness and stories of sorrow too, will we be able to face letting go, will we be able to give up last illusions having gone the distance and come to the end of the road with all of the other loved actors and lovers of pretending, will we, will we, let go too?